Monday, October 15, 2012

Cyberbullying // SupportFab

Hi guys and gals.
I kinda had this epiphany when I was just laying my bed on my way to the unknown wonders of the dream world. I was thinking about cyber-bullying. Strange isn't it? So I decided to research a bit on the topic. It turns out to be quite interesting for me.

So... what is cyberbullying? The word may seem a bit hard to swallow. :D As we can see, it is made from two words, cyber and bullying. One can assume that it is certainly not a good thing. According to this organization,

"Cyberbullying" is when a child, preteen or teen is tormented, threatened, harassed, humiliated, embarrassed or otherwise targeted by another child, preteen or teen using the Internet, interactive and digital technologies or mobile phones.

To simply this, basically cyberbullying is somebody being a total prick to someone or a group of people repeatedly. Is it that simple as it sounds? no. Cyberbullying costs lives of innocent children, teens and people alike. To be honest, we all have done it at least once. Swearing on the internet, getting angry and stuff. I admitted it myself, I used to do it quite often. It never occurred to me what would actually happen. But I have quit. I slowly learn over the years that it is never a good idea to cyberbully, even if I think it is for a small prank, I never know what the person actually feels right?

A list of checklist whether to consider before sending/publishing/doing anything on the internet :
Are you angry? If yes, please stop whatever you are doing and take a breather.
Are you sure it is the right time to do it? If no, do it a better time.
Are you going to say things that may be controversial or offensive? If yes, please stop and consider rephrasing or rewriting it.

This humble post is just a small PSA to my dear followers. Now we know a little bit more about cyberbullying. Remember, it is not difficult to withheld those negative emotions. When you are bullied, keep in mind that, these bully might be victims too. Keep an open heart when dealing with bullies. Ignoring them is a wise way to do it. Never bully back. Doing so will not help both of you.
Hat - bought at Bali, Neon Pink-Orange Bra - H&M, DIY Ripped Shirt - ZARA, Shorts - H&M Divided, Shoes - Charles and Keith, Glasses - bought at Singapore, Bracelet - bought at Bali, Necklace - Tiesto, Ring - m)phosis
I know this is super late since everyone has done this support FAB. But it is never too late right? I've been bullied many times by my classmates, even my friends used to bully me. And I want you all to know that you all are beautiful in your own way.
Don't let people bring you down! It's your life. Do whatever you like. Wear whatever you like. You might inspire people around you ;)
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Tell me below in the comments section your opinion about cyberbullying. Have you ever been bullied? How did you deal with it Tell me all about it below!

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26 comments:

  1. Never bully back! That's it!
    Bullies are weak and they don't even deserve our attention!
    Btw, I love your outfit! <3

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  2. It's a new post on coi-bruit.blogspot.com after 2 weeks of my holiday! Feel free to visit!

    Like your shoes!

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  3. i like the slit top and shoes!

    there are so many haters on the interwebs who make up the majority of cyberbullies - i just find it sad and immature that these people even have that courage to write nasty things to insult each other through a screen, and we can't do much to defend ourselves in those situations.

    i admit that i have insulted some people through games and at that time i was getting annoyed by them! well they were being a nuisance in the first place

    all i know is, as long as there is technology, cyberbullying will still be around

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  5. Gr8 post hun <3
    Love the pictures too..cutie :D
    Ruhie
    The Sweet Life

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  7. love your glasses and those shoes is to die forr!! <3
    and i've link you already! <3

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  8. I absolutely adore your FAB look cyber bullying has been a great issue to me, and I am willing to fight against it, will join fab soon. End Bullying Today.

    mind following each other, dear?
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  9. interesting post.. and i love the top! :)

    love
    agnes

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  10. i love your pictures very much also your quote,hehe <3

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  11. I am glad you are talking about such a good topic which nowadays, people ain't aware of. I am from the BASI network and I am sure you will be interested in helping to prevent social injustices in this world.

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  12. love your outfit ci cath ! especially the shoes :)
    nice post anyway :D

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  13. It's really a pity that people never take bullying seriously in real life.
    It's never okay to bully someone so heartlessly..

    And btw, your top is real badass!! Lookin good :D

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  14. It's a lovely of you, we're lucky enough in Indo cs we don't experience that much of a bullies like people do on the other side of the world. I love your shoes btw! :p
    re: Is that really? Cs I feel as same as everyone tho. weirdo. I'm not to sure about that, but I think it comes from my grandma, too bad I never met her. :)

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  15. I really dont understand why people cyberbully,its so shameful and cowardly,they just sit behind there computer and make people feel awful,and for what reason?! such an awful shame,its so amazing that your raising this issue.

    Thanks so much for stopping by my blog,and for your lovely comment,Ive been following your gorgeous blog,for a little while now,Im on the sixth page back on your followers x :) on GFC x

    Hope your well and have a wonderful weekend x

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  16. Cyberbullying is serious matter and some people take it lightly and harm themselves later.

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  17. Omg, you're so pretty! Followed you! Would you mind to follow back? :)

    xx,
    http://gailpregonero.blogspot.com

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  18. Love how your raising awareness on this topic. I don't think people realise the seriousness of it. Good on you chick! :)

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  19. Cyberbullying is definitely a very serious issue! I'm glad you're using influence as a blogger to raise awareness :)
    Your outfit is so cute! And so are you :3 Following~

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  20. love your cap dear :D
    I already following you dear :)
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  21. <3 your wedges!

    xoxo
    EV
    eviiarty.blogspot.com

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  22. Really nice post! It's so true to ignore anything negative and just go your way in this kinda situation :) BTW I just love your "Fab Chinky" top!! So cute!!

    xoxo

    Sooji

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